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lonely introvert who dreams of constant rain and cold weather while romanticizing a life filled with books and nature. always trying to find the pure in things while handling the depression that lies within. soon will be healed but for now, just somewhere in the moment trying to recreate the life worth striving for

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[clawmarks]

Des Chats -  Théophile Alexandre Steinlen - 1898 - via The British Museum

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[petaltexturedskies]

Virginia Woolf, in a letter to Violet Dickinson, wr. c. September 1907

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[flowerytale]

Anne Sexton, from A Self-Portrait in Letters

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[cocainejuul]

Agent Provocateur bambi set

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[idavinge]

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[foxeia]

Iffat Marash

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[inloveforevr]

Playing small in relationships won’t get you very far at all. If you feel like your boundaries are being violated and you’re not going to say anything, resentment will build up. So when you notice something, express how you really feel. In healthy relationships, the other person will respect and listen to your concerns. In an unhealthy relationship they’ll turn it around and make it seem like there’s no problem and/or they fail to validate your feelings. Why are you suppressing your needs? Why are you prioritising the peace in a relationship over your feelings? Remember relationships should enrich your life. It’s about balance and tenderness and consideration. Everyone messes up but is that person tending to you in a loving way? If not, why?

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